Terms of Service
Last updated 5 September 2026
1. What feelsonder is
feelsonder pairs you with another person for a private, one-on-one conversation based on shared interests. You choose "Start Text Chat" or "Start Video Chat" each time; text seekers are paired with text seekers and video seekers with video seekers. In a text chat you can send photos and either of you can suggest video, which the other must accept. In a video chat both cameras start on. Photos sent in a random chat are deleted when it ends. If you both send a friend request, you get a private thread that keeps its photos. By creating an account you agree to these terms and to the Privacy Notice.
2. You must be 18 or older
feelsonder is for adults only. You confirm that you are at least 18 years old when you sign up, and you must give your real date of birth. Accounts found to belong to anyone under 18 are removed. Reports involving a minor are our highest moderation priority.
3. Your account
Keep your password to yourself. You are responsible for what happens under your account. One person, one account. Do not impersonate other people. Your username, gender and date of birth are fixed when you sign up and cannot be changed afterwards; if they are wrong, delete the account and create a new one. You can delete your account at any time from your home page.
4. How to behave
You are talking to real people. Do not harass, threaten, or bully anyone. No hate speech. No sexual content involving minors, and no unsolicited sexual content at all. No scams, spam, advertising, or attempts to move people to other platforms for those purposes. Do not share other people's personal information. Do not send photos of people who have not agreed to it. If someone makes you uncomfortable, use Next, Block, or Report.
5. Video calls
Video is a choice you make each time. Start Video Chat means both cameras come on when you are matched; in a text chat video only starts when one person asks and the other accepts. Either way the other person's picture begins blurred and you unblur it when ready. Either of you can end the call at any moment. Video goes directly between your two devices (through our relay server when your networks require it) and is never recorded or stored by us. Keep it legal and consensual: no nudity or sexual content with someone who has not asked for it, no minors, ever.
6. Moderation
Messages pass through automated checks for spam. People you talk to can report you; reports include the conversation, and for a video call a still image of your video taken by the person reporting, so a human moderator can review it. Moderators may warn, restrict, suspend, or ban accounts that break these terms. Bans can be permanent. Accounts reported for sexual content by several different people are only matched with other such accounts until a moderator decides otherwise. We do not have to explain a decision, but suspensions show when they end.
7. Your content
You own what you write and the photos you send. You give us permission to store and show them to the person you sent them to, and to moderators when reviewing a report. Conversation transcripts are kept for moderation as described in the Privacy Notice. Photos in a friend thread are deleted when either of you unfriends, blocks, or deletes their account.
8. Availability and changes
feelsonder is in a private beta. It may go down, lose data, or change without notice. We may change these terms; if we do, the date at the top changes and continued use means you accept the new version.
9. No warranty, limited liability
The service is provided as is. To the extent the law allows, we are not liable for anything that happens as a result of using it, including what other users say or do. Nothing here limits liability that cannot be limited by law.
10. Ending things
You can stop using feelsonder at any time by deleting your account. We can suspend or close accounts that break these terms.
Questions: contact the operator at the address given in the Privacy Notice.